Zebras in a Field of Horses: A Journey Through Neurodivergence and Self-Discovery
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Zebras in a Field of Horses: A Journey Through Neurodivergence and Self-Discovery

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The Neurodiversity Voices Podcast featured Tamsyn Hawken, a specialist mental health mentor supporting university students across the UK. Tamsyn shared her journey of self-discovery, including her diagnoses of autism and ADHD, and how her lived experience as a queer neurodivergent woman shaped her approach to mentoring. Growing up in a rural village, she found her environment supportive but lacked representation, which delayed her realizations about neurodivergence.

Tamsyn emphasized the importance of creating safe, inclusive spaces for neurodivergent individuals to explore their identities and unmask. She shared metaphors, such as identifying as a zebra among horses, to illustrate the value of understanding one's unique traits and needs. Her work focuses on empowering students to advocate for themselves, embrace their neurodivergence, and navigate challenges with kindness and grace.

She also discussed the lack of inclusivity in academia, noting that while some students find supportive pockets, systemic changes are still needed. Tamsyn uses social media to share insights and is developing online courses on self-advocacy for neurodivergent individuals. Her key takeaway for listeners is to be kind and patient with themselves during the journey of embracing neurodivergence.

Takeaways

Tamsyn emphasizes the importance of creating safe spaces for individuals to be themselves.
Her journey of self-discovery led to her ADHD and autism diagnoses, which she views as empowering.
Lived experiences shape her mentoring approach, allowing her to connect deeply with students.
Unmasking neurodivergence is a personal journey that varies for each individual.
Educators should approach neurodivergent individuals with an open mind and without stereotypes.
Academia often lacks inclusivity for neurodivergent individuals, highlighting the need for change.
The zebra metaphor illustrates the importance of recognizing and embracing one's differences.
Students should seek or create spaces where they feel seen and valued.
Self-kindness and grace are essential in the journey of self-acceptance.
Embracing neurodivergence allows individuals to explore their identities and share their true selves with the world.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Neurodiversity and Advocacy
02:01 Journey of Self-Discovery and Diagnosis
06:14 Lived Experience and Mentoring Approach
10:10 Unmasking Neurodivergence
14:37 Messages for Educators and Professionals
18:51 Navigating Academia as a Neurodivergent Individual
22:08 The Zebra Metaphor and Personal Insights
28:22 Advice for Students Entering Post-Secondary Education
37:35 Embracing Neurodivergence and Self-Kindness

Tamsyn Hawken

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamsyn-hawken-014267191/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamsynhawkenphd/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61571495859953


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Letara Couto
Letara is a passionate advocate for neurodivergent voices, drawing from both lived experience and her work in accessible education. ​ Diagnosed with ADHD at 12, she faced years of academic and personal challenges before finding her footing in college---when starting ADHD medication, it transformed her ability to learn, focus, and thrive. That shift inspired a deeper journey into accessibility and inclusive education. ​ After studying Accessible Media Production in 2018, Letara began working at Accessible Learning Services within her college. Now a full-time Learning Strategist and Adaptive Technologist, she spends her days helping students understand their unique learning styles and adapt technology to support their success. ​ Letara is also a proud mom to two incredible neurodivergent kids: an 11-year-old son with ADHD and Autism and a 9-year-old daughter with ADHD and anxiety. Her personal and professional experiences continue to shape her commitment to advocacy, empathy, and creating spaces where neurodiversity is not only accepted but celebrated. As a co-host of the Neurodiversity Voices Podcast, Letara brings heart, insight, and a deep belief in the power of sharing our stories.

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